This message is for all those young women who have doubts regarding their love life and specially for all the assistants who are dating or interested in a single pastor.
You need to take into consideration a few basic rules in order to avoid making the wrong choice.
What do you as an assistant, have to observe in a pastor before starting a relationship with him?
1. If he is a servant.
2. The amount of time he's been in the Work of God.
3. If his ministry was approved.
4. His personality.
5. His flaws.
6. His age.
7. Only accept to date him with approval from the pastor in charge.
8. Participate in the Therapy of Love meetings as soon as your relationship has been approved.
These are a set of factors that will reduce the chances of an unsuccessful relationship, as well as wasting time with a person that still needs approval. I'm from the time in which you would only pray and just wait on God. The assistant would pray, speak with him only in public (never alone), they never went out together, and they would specially not call each other.
Today things have changed and because of this, the risks are higher. Young women rely only on what's in front of them, they become blind and don't realize that not everything that glitters is gold!!!
Many times a young lady who was disappointed from a previous relationship starts believing that she has found the man in her life... Perfect! But, we have noticed that things are more complicated, they forget that before being a man of God, their suitor is a man. This means that he has flaws and shortcomings, the perfect man doesn't exist, but rather the perfect match for each one of us. Perhaps this image of perfection and holiness has caused many young women to not realize that they need to watch in order not to make the wrong decision. Being of God doesn't mean being perfect, but rather a condition, this condition guarantees a path with fewer rocks, but never without them...
It's hard to accept that we make mistakes in our choices, but being of God is to take courage and confront our mistakes and learn from them.
"The blessing of the LORD makes one rich, And He adds no sorrow with it." (Proverbs 10:22)
Mrs. Carla Leite - Mozambique, Africa
I totally agree with you. To be of God is not easy only those who real with God and themselves, they see their wrong and learned from their mistakes.
ReplyDeleteFirst you need to have the spirit of love in you. Sometime people they do not think about do i have the same goes in life with him. They do like first come first service.lol
ReplyDeleteI agree, though I am not an assistant yet or anything. I have been going to the Love Therapy and I want to do the work of God in the altar but yet still I know that just because a man is in the suit and has the appearance of being a man of God he might not. I refuse to make the same decisions I did when I was in the world. The bible said to test the spirit and that's what we as women have to do especially in our love lives.
ReplyDeletemany women's weakness is in thier love life. The devil is always going to try and bring us someone that looks like what we want but really isnt. We have to trust in God and believe that when the time is right He will bring us the right man. Many are impatient and so therefore end up in a miserable relationship.
ReplyDeleteThis is really good for us girls to know. God wants so much for us and if we get this part wrong it could bring problems.
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